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Cate's Modern Mid-life Crisis's avatar

Thanks for the gentle reminder Brad! I completely agree, and though I think I'm pretty much try and be 'as is' I realise I'm possibly falling foul of the attempts to 'scrub up OK'. This is a good reminder the set aside the sneaky sandpaper that's trying to just smooth out that rough snd frayed edge to be more 'presentsble' and get bsck to just doing it ... 'as is'.

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Brad Davenport's avatar

We could all do with just being ourselves more. Authenticity speaks louder I think. Unless you’re authentic you’re playing a part and that gets tiring and stressful after a while 🙂

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Capry Cains's avatar

Excellent write up Brad.

The mad obsession for perfection is ruining our personalities.

Anyway, what is perfection..

There is nothing as a 'perfect thing' in this world.

We have stopped being human ..

We are not human if we don't fail , stumble, fall and do foolish things..

And also think 'Tea' can be a good substitute for coffee 😀😀😀😀

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Brad Davenport's avatar

That’s the problem perfection is foisted on people by others that want it to be their version. But it warps people’s thinking.

I do believe that the majority want authenticity rather than someone else’s POV.

Thank you for reading 🙏 ( I’m still in the coffee camp though 🤣)

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