The Small Comfort of Predicting Rain in an Uncontrollable World
Clouds, Control, and the Comedy of Trying to Be Right
I’ve become fascinated with the weather!
Not the dramatic kind, hurricanes or snowstorms, that kind. But the everyday, boring, ordinary weather.
I used to think “weather chat” was filler, something people said when they had nothing else to talk about.
Now?
I can deliver a detailed report on wind patterns with the confidence of a retired sailor.
It’s less about the forecast and more about the satisfaction of prediction.
If the sky darkens and I’ve already announced, “It’ll rain this afternoon,” I feel like Nostradamus.
If it doesn’t rain, I’ll say, “Well, the clouds held off.” Either way, it’s a win.
Why weather feels so important
The truth is, I don’t actually care that much about whether it rains. I’m not a farmer waiting on crops. I don’t have a picnic planned.
Most of the time, I’m inside drinking coffee.
What I do care about is being able to say: “See? I told you.”
There’s something comforting about being right about the little things, especially when so much else in life feels slippery.
I can’t predict my career, my health, or when the washing machine will suddenly start making that noise again.
But if I can look at the clouds and call it correctly?
That’s a win I’ll take.
The illusion of control
We all do this in different ways.
Some people check the stock market. Some people track sports stats. Some people refresh their email as if watching it will change the outcome.
I check the weather.
It’s my way of holding onto a thread of control in a world where most of the big stuff is uncontrollable.
The forecasts give me something to grasp: temperatures, percentages, radar maps. Numbers pretending to be certainty.
Of course, the irony is that weather is famously unpredictable.
We joke about meteorologists getting it wrong. But that doesn’t stop me from checking three different apps. As if comparing them will unlock the truth.
Tiny victories
There’s also a joy in the smallness of it.
The world is noisy. Headlines are overwhelming.
But if I can look up from my phone and say, “Rain’s coming in an hour,” and then watch the drizzle begin, it’s like winning a private little game against chaos.
It reminds me of something the Stoics wrote: “We don’t control events, only our response to them”.
Maybe I can’t control the storm, but I can at least call it in advance.
And if I can’t?
Well, I can carry an umbrella and pretend I meant to anyway.
A gentler lesson
The I’ve got older, the more I realize that “weather expert” isn’t just about clouds and rain. It’s about accepting that certainty is rare, but small predictions and rituals give us comfort.
Maybe that’s why older relatives always talk about the forecast, not because they’re dull, but because weather is one of the few dramas you can watch unfold with no real stakes.
A safe place to practice being right, or being wrong, without it breaking you.
Closing thought
So yes, I’ll keep checking my weather app. I’ll keep making tiny prophecies about drizzle. It doesn’t make me a sage or a scientist.
But in a life full of uncertainty, sometimes the ability to point at the sky and say, “Rain’s coming,” feels like enough wisdom for one day.
And if I’m wrong?
I’ll say, “Well, the clouds held off.” Either way, I win.
Absolutely spot on! And I bet you’re more accurate than the Met Office! 😉 Thank you for another entertaining and insightful read. ☔
Predictability is definitely underrated. My husband is the sports tracker (and has really decent success), our roommate watches the same shows on TV over and over again (dementia, autism? I really think it's about familiarity). Me? Weather girl. I too have 3 apps for accuracy- and never thought I would do that after growing up on a small farm and praying daily for the needed weather. Yet here I am...🤔